For Gen Z and Generation Alpha, there’s shame attached to many of the outdated ideas of masculinity. . . so what should take the place of it? How can we coach our sons towards an authentic version of manhood that doesn’t make anyone cringe or get cancelled?

There is no better person to lead a conversation on this than Vince Matoska Chafin. Vince has two decades of experience with two organizations known for doing the most inclusive, thoughtful work on masculinity right now: The ManKind Project and Sacred Sons.

Vince also has expertise in Gestalt, Family Systems, Somatic, IMAGO, NLP, Bioenergetic therapies and Depth psychology, and he has supported diverse programs from Women Within to H.E.R., Boys to Men and Sober Living and Recovery Facilities. He has been honored to be invited to lead trainings for the Lakota communities at Pine Ridge S.D. as well as Germany, Sweden, Switzerland, Spain, Belgium, Denmark and Canada to share his knowledge and hard won wisdom.  

Vince will tell us about his work and lead a community conversation about what our sons need from us right now to become the men of tomorrow. This is hard, emotional work, but also vital work, and we hope you will join us. We’ll serve a delicious chef-made, farm-to-table meal.

We have individual tickets for sale below but if you’d like to cohost this event and sponsor a table for your friends, school group, or community, please email hello@jarfarms.com. All proceeds go to support scholarships for JAR Farms retreats.

[For non-locals who wish to explore Tiburon before or after this event, we recommend The Water’s Edge Hotel in Downtown Tiburon or The Tiburon Lodge.)